apache – Ruby is starting httpd, and I can’t find where from

OSX 10.15.5. Mac Mini. Homebrew httpd and hopefully OSX httpd disabled in plist but something is still starting this I have the plist for apache/httpd disabled, but on reboot I still get this

  231 ??         0:00.08 /usr/bin/ruby /usr/sbin/httpd-wrapper -D FOREGROUND
 1258 ??         0:00.42 /usr/sbin/httpd -D FOREGROUND
 1262 ??         0:00.00 /usr/sbin/httpd -D FOREGROUND```

and so on.
I can’t find a way to stop it loading. How do I find what is starting this process? I don’t recall ever seeing it started with ruby before? It’s not in the list file even?